Paul Lakin, age 75

of South Weymouth and Chatham

Paul Lakin, age 75

Paul Lakin, age 75, of South Weymouth and Chatham, formerly of Quincy, died peacefully, Wednesday, August 27, 2025 at South Shore Hospital in Weymouth, in the comfort of his loving family.

Paul was born in Cottingham, England, to the late Doreen (South) and William Kenneth Lakin. Raised and educated there, he was a graduate of the University of Manchester in England. Paul immigrated to the United States in 1975 at the age of twenty-six, settling in San Jose, Calif. and Kingston, N.Y. before coming to New England. He lived in South Weymouth for the past thirteen years, previously in Quincy for twenty-five years. Paul was also a summer resident of Chatham since 1991.

Paul worked as a computer engineer for IBM for twenty-five years.

He was an avid wind surfer, loving the Chatham beaches. He also enjoyed boating and fishing and as a younger man was a mountain bike rider. Paul was a gourmet cook, gardener, and had a special interest in astronomy. He loved hiking with his two dogs, Harry and Rusty, and road tips up and down the East Coast.

Most of all, Paul was devoted to his family and friends.

Beloved husband for thirty-three years of Margaret N. (Norton) Lakin.

Devoted father of Jeffrey Lakin of Kingston, N.Y.

Close friend and brother-in-law of Frank Norton and his wife Claire, Carol Bailey and her husband Jim, all of Hingham, Kathleen Hunter and her husband Ed of Braintree.

Dear brother of Noel Lakin and his wife Antje, Veronica Spibey and her husband John, all of England.

Memorial Funeral Services will be conducted at the Sweeney Brothers Home for Funerals, 1 Independence Avenue, Quincy, on Monday, September 8, at 11 a.m. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. Memorial Visitation prior to the service from 10 – 11 a.m.

For those who wish, donations in Paul’s memory may be made to Partners in Health, 800 Boylston Street, Suite 300, Boston, MA 02199 or www.pih.org/donate.

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  • Farewell dearest brother until we meet again.

    Many precious memories from a life lived well and with true dignity: you will be missed greatly.

    Rest now in peace and be assured that you forever remain in our thoughts and prayers.

    All our love

    Noel and Antje.

  • Paul, you were the rudder in my life – the calm and patient person for most of my life . I will never forget lying on the golf course looking at the stars when the sprinklers came on and when we got up to see the comet in the early hours and you quietly said ‘ have you looked outside it’s raining ! ‘
    Goodnight P
    L sleep tight.
    So much love Vron

  • Paul will be missed. He was always happy to talk about life, family, windsurfing or sea stories. He was a gentleman and a scholar. I always learned something when I spoke to Paul, but never knew the direction the learning and conversation might go.

    Paul – I wish you a strong breeze and flat waters as you go ripping into your next adventure. I wish you warm sunshine, following seas and may you find safe harbor with just the right amount of wind until we meet again.

    Much love,

    Kevin

  • Paul was my dear cousin and good friend, we had many things in common, electronic engineering, fishing, boating, enjoying life and family activities. As youngsters, my dad and Uncle Ken would take us all out on fishing boats from ports around the UK coast, it was great fun and always led to an informal competition to see who caught the most and the biggest, Paul always did well!. Looking back over the years, I realise that we had some of the best times ever which, unfortunately, I don’t think can be said about the future. Paul, you will always remain in our thoughts and dreams and we’ll miss you forevermore. Lots of love Tony & Na from Thailand