Pamela J. (Wyatt) Stenson, age 58, of Boston and Edgartown, died, Thursday, August 3, 2023 in the comfort of her home, surrounded by her loving family.

Pamela was born in New London, Conn., to the late Hugh and Phyllis N. (Tate) Wyatt. Raised and educated in Waterford, Conn., she was a graduate of Waterford High School, Class of 1983, where she excelled in softball and field hockey. She also earned a degree from Mitchell College, New London, Conn. in 1985. She lived in Boston for over nine years and in Edgartown, Martha’s Vineyard for seventeen years.

She was an IT professional in the information technology industry and worked as president of the business unit for IDG in Framingham for twelve years.

Pamela was a self-proclaimed mermaid who loved swimming, boating, and skiing. She was the bright light of every gathering, loving music, dancing, and fun. Pamela was a strong woman who enjoyed life and time spent with family and friends.

Pam was a proud member of Town River Yacht Club in Quincy where she enjoyed many fond memories.

Most importantly, Pamela was devoted to her family, especially her stepchildren, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews, supporting all their many activities and accomplishments.

Beloved wife for twenty-six years of Raymond C. Stenson, Jr.

Devoted stepmother of Raymond C. Stenson, III and his wife Melissa of Scituate, Andrea E.S. Gibbens and her husband Dustin of Windsor, Calif.

Loving grandmother of Raymond IV (RC) and Ridley Stenson of Scituate.

One of seven siblings, Pamela was the dear sister of Betsy Gelinas and her husband Mark of Waterford, Conn., Susan Starks of Jacksonville, Fla., Thomas Wyatt and his wife Pauline, Alan Wyatt and his wife Pamala, all of Waterford, Conn., the late Cathy-Jo Cousineau and her surviving husband Barry of Jacksonville, Fla., the late Timothy Wyatt and his surviving wife Leanne of Waterford, Conn.

She is also survived by many cherished nieces, nephews, their families, and countless friends.

A Celebration of Pamela’s Life will be held at the tent pavilion at Granite Links Golf Club, 100 Quarry Hills Drive, Quincy, on Sunday August 20, from 1 – 4 p.m. Relatives and friends are invited to attend.

For those who wish, donations in Pamela’s memory may be made to the American Cancer Society, 3 Speen Street, Framingham, MA 01701.