Robert A. Pettinelli, Jr., Q.F.D., Ret., age 65

of Weymouth

Robert A. Pettinelli, Jr., Q.F.D., Ret., age 65

Robert A. Pettinelli, Jr., Quincy Fire Department, Retired, age 65, of Weymouth, formerly of Quincy, died unexpectedly, Saturday, September 28, 2024 at his home.

Robert was born in Boston, raised and educated in Quincy. He was a graduate of Quincy Vocational High School, Class of 1977. He lived in Weymouth for over twenty years.

Rob served as a Private in the United States Marine Corps working as an aviation ordnance munitions technician in the late 1970s and early 1980s.

He was proud to be a Quincy firefighter. He was appointed to the department on November 9, 1985 and retired on April 27, 2007 after twenty-two years of service. He was assigned to Engine 4 in Wollaston for many years.

Rob was a member of the Torre Dei Passeri Social Club in Quincy where he enjoyed playing bocce and made many friendships.

He was a volunteer at The Boston Home in Dorchester where he shared his humor and love of life with daily interaction amongst the patients.

Rob was especially fond of his two dogs, Junior and Buddy, and loved taking them for daily walks at Stodder’s Neck in Hingham. There he made many friends, both human and K9, and chief among them was his longtime girlfriend, Kimberlee Noke, of Weymouth.

Beloved son of the late Jane A. (Sugrue) and Robert A. Pettinelli, Quincy Fire Department, Retired.

Devoted brother of Marie G. Lumaghini, Ronald A. Pettinelli and his wife Diane, all of Quincy, and Richard A. Pettinelli and his wife Deanne of Kingston.

Loving uncle of Lauren Bolton and her partner Gregg, Rene Lumaghini and his wife Kelley, Corey Lumaghini and his partner Bridget, and Michaela Pettinelli.

Much-loved great uncle of Reese Winter, Nolan Bolton, Ethan Bolton, and Calum Lumaghini, Nora Joy Lumaghini and Cassandra Mae Lumaghini.

Rob is also survived by aunts, many cousins, and friends.

Visiting hours will be held in Saint Joseph Church, 550 Washington Street, Quincy, on Friday, October 4, from 4 – 7 p.m. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated in Saint John the Baptist Church, 44 School Street, Quincy, on Saturday, October 5, at 10 a.m. Interment, with military honors, to follow at Pine Hill Cemetery, West Quincy.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Robert’s memory may be made to The Boston Home, 2049 Dorchester Avenue, Boston, MA 02124 or Quincy Firefighters Local 792 Cancer Foundation, P.O. Box 690737, Quincy, MA 02269.

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  • Bobby so sorry you left us to soon will always remember you as the best cook out host RIP

  • Richard Ronnie and Marie
    So sorry to hear the loss of our cuz Robert
    Will surely be missed by all

  • Robert was my cousin, neighbor, friend, little brother in the crew and a constant fixture in my childhood. My mother loved her cousin, Robert Pettinelli Sr. like a brother, the reason we became neighbors when I was 8 and Robert was 7. I will never forget the day I was surprised to see a strapping young man, tall and strong bedecked in full firefighter gear face to face with me as I exited a building Robert was entering as first responder! When he reconnected with my little brother later in life it was again such a surprise to see Robert relaxed and retired and loving life. It is so hard to wrap my brain about his sudden departure from us. My heart breaks along with my cousins Marie, Ronny and Richard. See you when we gather to remember Robert Pettinelli Jr. Much love, Dawna Lee Andronico Donaghey. Aka Miss D. Or Miss America.

  • Our hearts are broken with the loss of our beloved cousin. We will miss his sense of humor, his smile, his warmth, his hugs, and his devotion to our family. Shared memories of the many joys and sorrows we experienced together will remain in our hearts always. Although his light is no longer visible, it endures. Rest in peace dear Robert.

  • We are heartbroken to hear of our cousin Robert’s passing. We will always remember him smiling . Rest in peace Robert. We love you and will always remember you.

  • Marie, Ronnie and Richard,
    Steve and I are so very sorry to hear about Robert. He was full of life. He was loved by many people! He had a gift. When he walked into a room he would always make you smile with whatever story he had for the day! You will be sadly missed Robert but, in our family, we believe you are in a better place surrounded by everyone who was taken before you! Including mom and dad! We know they are very happy! May you rest in peace now Robert. Keep them smiling up there. God Bless You!
    Linda and Steve Panico

  • To Marie, Ronnie and Richie I am so sorry about Bob he will be very missed. I am having such a hard time with his passing I have a true great friend from growing up with him, he was always happy and full of life he always made me feel good. Your mom and dad always made me feel like family and great mentors growing up without a father.your whole family was always awesome.god bless you all and I hope we can talk soon. I know Bob is in God’s arms of love,may the blessed mother pray for all of you and your families and comfort you all. There are so many great stories I hope someday to share with you . Love always John and Jeanne carloni